Each day a few more calls come in on Yvonne Minor's hotline for military families. Sitting at her kitchen table in Savage, Minnesota., she tries to reassure parents, relatives, spouses who are afraid their loved ones will never be the same. "It's different from the Gulf War. The parents are so afraid for their kids psychologically this time," said Minor, who founded Back America's Courageous Military (BACM) when Iraq's Saddam Hussein was this nation's the No. 1 enemy. "They're worried about whether their children can handle it. We can turn the channel. They won't be able to do that."